Finding a Perfect Birthday Present for Men

It is really hard to find a good birthday present or a gift for men. According to surveys conducted in 2010 the most popular gifts for men were electronic devices.

Cameras, electronic car equipment, eBook readers, security and GPS systems, iPhones accessories and some home electronic devices have been bought for a present to fathers, brothers, sons, boyfriends and friends. Getting a gift for a man is determined by their overall interests.

Apart from the most popular electronic devices suitable for every man there are some more creative and specific gifts such as sunrise alarm clocks, solar iPhone chargers, mini helicopters or remote control toys for small and “big” boys

However, while gadgets and cool presents could make a really nice gift for men there is a new trend emerging when buying interesting presents for our loved ones, namely experience day presents.

There are plenty of experience day presents to choose from. Experience day presents give the receiver an original and unique experience he hasn’t tried before and quite likely wouldn’t have the chance to be exposed to if not given that present.

This type of present seems to be an ideal gift for men regardless of their age. It is also an ideal gift for those men who already have all the possible gadgets and devices we would normally think of when buying birthday presents for them.

Another great idea for gifts for men could be to buy a personalised gift, a present which no one else will be able to get. Personalised gifts usually make a receiver special.

In order to buy a perfect man’s gift it is really important to know who this present will go to. It is advisable to spend some time thinking about your gift recipient’s hobbies, interests and the way he spends his free time. Having thought about all areas of his life will make it easier to decide which presents are the most sought after and suitable for him.

It is worth pointing out that sometimes even a small present can be appreciated as much as a big one when it is what the receiver desired, the most important thing is to buy a present that shows we were thoughtful about its receiver.

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Do Not Invite the Clock to the Negotiating Table

Just when you think you have a pretty good grasp of the negotiating process, and after you have been through enough “deals” to gain a comfort level at the negotiating table, along comes one more surprise gambit or tactic employed by the other party. Unless you recognize this one for what it is, it can cost you dearly. I fondly refer to this tactic as “the clock!”

One of the most memorable times this tactic was used against me, I had just arrived in Mexico with the top level management team of the company that I then represented. We had flown in to sign the agreements I had negotiated, and to attend a dinner party to celebrate a joint venture between two highly recognized companies — one from the US and one from Mexico. At that time, I was an employee of the US company and the most junior member of the management group on site to execute the agreements. This was the first time I had been given complete responsibility to negotiate a complete “deal,” and being at the lowest level of the team just added another element of pressure.

As we entered the airport, I was called aside by the VP of Finance of the Mexican company, and was then whisked away to a meeting to discuss “one minor issue” before executing the agreements and proceeding to the dinner party to celebrate the successful “conclusion of the deal.” As it was then only about 4:00 pm, and the dinner party was scheduled to begin at 8:30 pm, I was not concerned about resolving “one minor issue.”

The “minor issue” resulted from a breakdown in communication between one member of my team and one member of the Mexican team relating to a financial schedule that was sent, but supposedly never received. It was not the schedule per se that was the core issue, but it provided the VP of Finance the opportunity to use the issue to open the door to renegotiate one aspect of the joint venture agreement.

As it turned out, the VP of Finance had never supported the joint venture and was looking for a way to gain more financial control over the venture. We ended up talking, reasoning and negotiating until just after 4:00 am the next morning when we finally resolved the “minor issue.” Later, I was told that the rest of the people from both companies ate a very quiet, tense dinner in an atmosphere of “gloom and doom.” As for all of the negotiators, we did not eat until the next morning when the revised contracts were delivered to the “celebratory” breakfast meeting about 10:00 am.

Needless to say, the VP of Finance of the Mexican company recognized that he had everyone in place on “his turf” with the expectation that the “deal” was done, and therefore, he had the perfect setting to extract one more concession from us — the other party. As it turned out, the final concession never compromised the working relationship between the parties, but it was a painful twelve hour session for me especially as I had to keep in mind that the clock was “ticking” in the background and I needed to get the “deal” done before we departed the next day.

Another situation that arose many times resulted from my frequent trips to Japan during the 70′s and 80′s to negotiate a series of license agreements. In many case, the Japanese company would greet me at the airport and deliver me to my hotel so that I could relax before dinner. During the two hour trip in from the airport, my host typically would offer to assist in reconfirming my return flight. During that time frame, most overseas flights required reconfirmation by phone at least 48 hours prior to departure.

Most of the time, I would plan three or four days in Japan as I anticipated spending two or three long days at the negotiating table where a significant number of items could be resolved. Usually, I found myself meeting with the host company for the entire time, but what I did not recognize at first was that the real negotiations did not take place until the last meeting prior to my departure when only a few hours remained.

It was not until this situation occurred several times, that I finally figured out that “the clock” had become a major player at the negotiating table. Once the “light came on,” and I recognized the tactic, I always left my return ticket “open,” and so advised the host company as soon as I arrived. My new tactic was to remain in Japan “until the parties had reached a mutually satisfactory agreement.” Not surprisingly, by eliminating “the clock,” negotiations began after dinner the first evening and continued throughout each day until I departed.

Lessons Learned: Do not let arbitrary deadlines affect your negotiations. Also be careful not to let the fact that you are on the other party’s turf work against you.

Trial Presentation – Glossary of Terms

When people go to trial in court, it can sometimes be boring for jurors and people sitting in the courtroom, watching to find out what happened in the civil lawsuit. Some lawyers are exciting, while others are boring. Sometimes, the very nature of a case is uninteresting. Lawyers need to explain complex ideas so that everyone understands. One way to make court cases more interesting and easier to understand is through trial presentation and special preparation. For the most part, the more, the better. There are special terms that describe some of the things lawyers and their helpers do before, during and after a trial. Some of them are as follows:

Document Review
Lawyers always ask people to produce documents when they are involved in a civil court case. Someone needs to look at them before they are handed over to the other side to make sure that what has been requested is the most accurate information and that the other people are, in fact, entitled to have it. Some of them get stamps and stickers put on; others do not.

Video Synching
Witnesses that have their depositions taken in front of attorneys, a court stenographer and video cameras are under oath. New computer technology makes the video digital and the written record electronic. They can be combined for one audio-visual package.

Day-In-The-Life
When people are affected by a physical or emotional injury, the lawyers sometimes want to give jurors an understanding of what life is like at home for this person on an everyday basis. A legal videographer will put together a day-long video of typical activities and life-style adjustments that have occurred as a result of the incident.

Graphics
Statistical data should be jazzed up with graphics and computer-based presentation programs to help people better understand the information given. Examples are charts, graphs and maps.

War Room
During lengthy trials, both parties may “camp out” in special conference rooms at an office or hotel. These are affectionately dubbed war rooms. Two groups may relay their time spent in the courtroom and the war room, depending on which witnesses are testifying and which lawyers are questioning witnesses.

Opening and Closing Statements
When a trial starts and ends, the attorneys involved give a brief summary at the beginning and end of the case. This usually happens before and after the witnesses go to the stand for questioning. The statements presented by lawyers can be difficult to pay attention to or to understand. Sometimes they do all the talking; sometimes they bring in specially designed slides and photos to supplement their opening and closing statements.